5 LOVE LANGUAGES BY GARY CHAPMAN

Chapman states in his book that each person has a primary love language like everyone has a native tongue.

Many marriages fail not because couples don’t put in the effort, but because they are expressing their love in the “wrong” ways. When you learn to understand and speak your spouse’s love language, you will be able to effectively express your love and truly feel loved in return.

It is not uncommon for partners to have two different love languages. One of the major themes circles around the idea that Love Triumphs all.

The book describes the pain and pleasures we feel in love and the consequences it has on our relationships.

Another very important theme in book is about overcoming the odds in your relationship. Most couples eventually fall out of love and tolerate each other for the rest of the marriage. The book tries to illustrate that if couples try and understand each other’s love language they can overcome the resentment and pain that has built up over the years.

By reading the 5 love languages maybe you will also find your love language and what works best for you and your partner.

Remember love is not just a feeling but a choice we have to make every single day.